Reto Do you speak English?

[Sonia]

And what about you @Sonia?
Are you still studying??

I´m a hard teacher..

I am not studying. I'm busy with other things

 

[Sonia]

How are you today @Aloz ?
Are you OK?​

 

[Sonia]

I'm okay, thanks.
I hope that you'll return here today.

 

[Laura_33]

Hi everyone. I think the real challenge for a person with evitative personality disorder it is actually the fact of going into an academy (study center) and be able to socialize with other people, be able to lose the fear of being judged or criticized in a bad way (the more the less, we all of us don't like to be criticized or judged). I never suffered in that sense because i never suffered of evitative personality disorder. However I suffered a very serious bullying problem when I was 12 years old. Very hard for me. But thanks God it was only one year...

 

[Ymir]

Being assertive is very hard, indeed! I've also had problems with that, but I think I'm also improving. I went to an academy years ago in order to study English, we had to have conversations in pairs and talk aloud in class, it was so hard and I got anxious whenever we were required to do so, but somehow I managed.

However I suffered a very serious bullying problem when I was 12 years old. Very hard for me. But thanks God it was only one year

I'm so sorry to hear that, I'm also glad it was only for a year, but it must have been really hard... I didn't suffer from bullyng exactly, but I had several experiences of rejection, etc. when I was a kid, in different moments, the worst of them when I first started school.
Corrections are welcome!

 

[Laura_33]

Gracias por las correcciones Aloz.

 

[Sonia]

Good morning @Aloz
Good luck in your job!

 

[Sonia]

I hope you tell us how you feel at work

 

[Sonia]

 

[Sonia]

La verdad es que me quedo triste despues de leerte @Aloz ... lo peor es sentir verguenza de quien eres. Eso te resta posibilidades futuras de que cambie tu vida. Tienes que aceptar quien eres. Tu no has hecho nada malo. En todo caso, te lo han hecho a ti. Y por eso hoy tienes secuelas. Comprendete y aceptate. Acepta tu vida. A los demás no les importa que no hayas tenido vida. Solo les importa cómo te comportas ahora con ellos. Y eres un gran tipo. No te aisles @Aloz . Sientate con algun grupo aunque no digas gran cosa...
Tienes que hacer algo para mejorar tu vida... animo!

 

[Sonia]

Thanks for you comments although they are not in English..

If they are not in English... it is because I want that every people undersant my words.

 

[Sonia]

Yo tampoco comento nada mas in English

 

[Ymir]

I can understand you very well, @Aloz, I've sometimes felt a bit ashamed of my life, the lack of experiences and "normality" in my life, but @Sonia is right, we should accept ourselves and value the effort we make every day and whenever we feel able to make some progress. We all and our feelings are valid. Ánimo!!!! (Would it be right to say "cheer up"? )

 

[Guillermo]

My English was stored in some drawer (cajón) of my memory, I remember very little of my classes.
You look like a great person to me, @Aloz, I would invite you to have some beers if you lived near or eat a roast (asado) or something in the plow disk (disco de arado).
@Sonia do not be discouraged, you have been doing well. @Ymir you're fabulous.

 

[Ymir]

Thanks, @Guillermo!!!

 

[Ymir]

I'm getting hungry!!!

 

[Ymir]

I always get hungry at night! I´m like an owl (el búho)